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WoolyAI's avatar

Talk to a lawyer.

Not to take action, not to sue, just to understand what your situation is. This is a big honking deal in your life, it's worth $300-$500 to talk with a lawyer and understand exactly what your situation is and what your rights and responsibilities are, and those of your wife, before you potentially lose your daughter or move down to Socal and leave your support network.

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blurry's avatar

I think you're right. That's a good way of putting it. I wanna understand what situation I'm in and what my options are.

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Felix Delong's avatar

I would challenge it for sure.

good luck, with whatever you decide to do.

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blurry's avatar

Thanks! And I hope things are going well with your kid too!

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Cordelia's avatar

A similar situation happened in my own family. As the child was distanced from the father she was also distanced from that whole side of extended family. It really hurt us all, most especially my grandma. Challenging it might not just be something you do for yourself.

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Cordelia's avatar

Praying for u and your daughter and your ex

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blurry's avatar

I wanna hear more about that. It sounds like it must have been a contentious breakup. I've been watching a lot of videos where people call in about relationship issues lately.

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